Judgement
I hate being judged, either whisper behind my back or spat it into my face. Nevertheless I kinda want them when I feel myself committing some original sins, sloth, greed, lust mostly and pride or envy sometimes.
When I get to them, I listen carefully. I separate the affirmatives from the negatives, which are later distinguished into things that I can change and those I cannot. Then things are easy, just consider as advices, those I CAN changes which will do me good and never cross my basic principles, numerate them and take a hack.
However, may god grant me serenity and keep me away from the wrath sin, cause those human beings feeded on sorrows make me sick.